Do you guys ever feel like you are not as important in someone’s life as you thought you were?
There are just some times in my life when I feel like i’m not welcomed by some people in certain situations.
I don’t understand it. People say that I am a like-able guy. So why do I feel like some people just don’t want to be around me?
It’s really confusing predicament because one minute you’re hanging out with a friend and enjoying each others company and the next they’re telling you that they forgot to invite you on a beach trip or to their house for a party or to meet up and grab lunch etc. etc.
All of this seems pretty useless to be writing about, but i’m just tired of people being so shady about making and breaking plans.
Look man, it’s really simple: If you don’t want to be around me or invite me anywhere, JUST TELL ME!
It’s seriously that easy.
Trust me, you won’t hurt my feelings if you are just straight up and honest with me instead of making some lame excuse to cover your ass because you can’t own up to it in a normal conversation.
Look I know that you have other friends and i’m not trying to say that i’m better or worth more than anyone else. I just think that when you consider someone a close friend, you make certain assumptions. Go on and correct me if you think i’m wrong.
Just realize that I have higher standards for certain people than others and if you can’t fit that role in my life, then we need to have a talk. Because this one just might kill me.